Well our landlord is determined to get us out because “we cause trouble”.. in other words, we told a new neighbor a sex offender lives down the street and she told the landlord, and the landlord got really pissed. I mean, you should have heard him holllering at my husband about it!
He gave us an eviction notice because we have been late on rent (my husband has been on unemployment benefits and thats 220 a week, and sometimes we never even got a check) and we’ve been late a lot, but not more than 2 weeks and we always paid SOMETHING and always paid the ridiculous late fees, and it was always agreed upon, so its not like he had to wait for the middle of the month for the whopping 500 bucks. This would all change, but unfortunately my husband started his new job in the middle of a pay period so this month was the same.
So we are leaving. But we are leaving with no debt to him. So, that’s good.
We don’t have enough money at this time to move into a new place. It will take a couple of months. So, there are 2 options.. go to my parents house or go to my inlaws. I told my husband I wanted to go to my inlaws because my dad is a chronic pain patient and my husband has an addiction to pain pills (he doesn’t do them anymore, but I still say he’s addicted because he always asks for one or is tempted to ask, even though he don’t get it). My father in law called me this morning to inform me of the stipulations.
We can stay upstairs, but we cannot bring any of our things except for clothes. Everything we own must go into storage, even our beds and my son’s bed, we can sleep on the sofa sleeper upstairs together. He wants us to give him our bills every month so he can help us establish our credit (he’s a realtor, and I’ve been discussing with him about credit counseling). He will not move any of the workout equipment downstairs or any of the other furniture downstairs for more space, he will be coming up every morning at 7am to exercise. He said that in order to help us, their lives will not be disrupted.
So.. that pretty much sucks that I can’t sleep in my own bed for a few months, during my LAST semester of nursing school, and that I’m going to be super uncomfortable. But what can I do? Nothing. I can take all my things to my parents house and live there.. but I just don’t want to go through this battle with my husband and father again. That’s the reason why we left in the first place.
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